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Post by Ruby on Sept 29, 2015 11:31:54 GMT -5
It would be nice if you could post the a link to the source to pictures that you post. I understand that you may not be able to do that with all, like pics that has been sent to you, but if you find them on twitter or instagram or some other website it would be nice!
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Post by lm on Sept 29, 2015 12:03:18 GMT -5
It would be nice if you could post the a link to the source to pictures that you post. I understand that you may not be able to do that with all, like pics that has been sent to you, but if you find them on twitter or instagram or some other website it would be nice! Why would it be nice? Nice for the person who then has to answer tweets or posts about who he was with and what she looks like and who else was there? If a OP asks for links to their social media to be added i'll add.
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Post by Ruby on Sept 29, 2015 12:11:43 GMT -5
Yeah, i was just asking politely so there is no need to sound condescending. I can only answer for myself, and I personally don't have twitter or really any other social media besides tumblr, so it would be nice so that i could go there myself and see if they have posted anymore pictures. that's why i was asking. not everyone wants to know every single thing about a celeb. way to make people on this site feel welcome to ask questions...
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Post by lm on Sept 29, 2015 12:33:00 GMT -5
Yeah, i was just asking politely so there is no need to sound condescending. I can only answer for myself, and I personally don't have twitter or really any other social media besides tumblr, so it would be nice so that i could go there myself and see if they have posted anymore pictures. that's why i was asking. not everyone wants to know every single thing about a celeb. way to make people on this site feel welcome to ask questions... I didn't mean it in a condescending way. I was just stating my reasoning for why we don't post links to the OP social media. Not everyone wants to know every little thing about a celeb but many do and i'd rather not help people who don't know when to cross that line. Since i'm at work the responses I can sometimes write are brief.
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Post by Ruby on Sept 29, 2015 12:48:50 GMT -5
I understand your reasoning, was just asking for my own sake. but there are more than me on this site, and they might use it to cross the line, i get that.
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Post by lm on Sept 29, 2015 12:57:41 GMT -5
I understand your reasoning, was just asking for my own sake. but there are more than me on this site, and they might use it to cross the line, i get that. thanks for understanding.
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Post by Blah on Sept 29, 2015 18:50:41 GMT -5
For what it's worth (likely nothing), I second Ruby's recommendation for a link to a source. Sometimes the OP adds context/additional pictures/funny stories about the encounter. Also it's always nice to credit someone for their contribution.
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Post by lm on Sept 29, 2015 19:05:42 GMT -5
For what it's worth (likely nothing), I second Ruby's recommendation for a link to a source. Sometimes the OP adds context/additional pictures/funny stories about the encounter. Also it's always nice to credit someone for their contribution. Sadly the only thing they get for their contribution is cyber stalked by crazy people. However if you guys want to find pictures and then post them here you are more than welcome to include links when you do. Jordyn does sometimes. We'll leave it to the discretion of the poster or to the person who sends it in. I do credit Gifs made by people on tumblr - no one bothers to stalk them.
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Post by Snarky on Sept 29, 2015 19:26:53 GMT -5
Guys, if it really means so much to see where a picture came from or to see if there's a story posted with the pic, just go look for the pic yourself. They're all hiding in plain sight. If you can't find it, that means the owner doesn't want to be found. I don't understand why it's such a bone of contention when the majority of pics posted here can be found easily.
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Post by fergie on Sept 29, 2015 20:52:49 GMT -5
Or they can go to a place that has no problem stalking poor people who post photos. They have no problem posting links. People shouldn't have to worry about getting asked "who was he with?" Or "did she look like this girl? Or this one?" By having the links posted, it has caused photos and tweets to be deleted, or the account locked, then no one gets to see things. A lot of people won't post their photos publicly because they do not want bombarded or asked 1001 questions.
Sorry I've been quiet because of busy with work, but this kinda struck a nerve.
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Post by cat on Sept 30, 2015 3:22:56 GMT -5
Even though I'm late to the party, I'm going to join in here. Asking someone else to do something for you that you can do for yourself is called lazy. Asking total strangers to do those things without offering anything in return is called selfish. Acting like a bully under the guise of being offended by an answer that wasn't worded politely enough for you when your true reason for responding is that they didn't comply with your lazy and selfish request is called being a colossal bitch.
The members that contribute regularly on this board are valued by this board. Don't think you can gang up on someone here and not meet the army standing behind them.
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Post by Ruby on Sept 30, 2015 4:24:43 GMT -5
Hi cat, you can adress by my name me since it was me that you called all those really awful things. I was asking POLITELY for my own sake because i have really know idea where to even start looking for those pictures that apparently are hiding in plane sight. Me and Im have already established that wasn't going to happen because of legit reasons which i understand and have accepted. And why you felt the need to "join in" and call me all those things is beyond me, honestly how rude. And gang up on?? how can i do that when there is only me?
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Post by G.G. on Sept 30, 2015 6:12:23 GMT -5
I know that I like to know where stuff came from because I like to see what people say about meeting Sid. That being said, I have posted a few things here and I don’t think I have posted the links very often, if ever. So basically, if you post the link, great thanks!, If not, no big deal, thanks for the picture.
However I don’t think it should be assumed that people have horrible intentions, call them names or suggest that they go elsewhere just because they inquire about links. I know I’m not a member so my comment will likely be viewed as trolling, but that’s not the case. I just wanted to say that not everyone who is new is out to cause problems. Everyone is new at some point.
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Post by fergie on Sept 30, 2015 6:23:44 GMT -5
If those three things are some of the worst things you could be called, then consider yourself lucky to have truly never been called worse.
And if you could find this board, you can search a hashtag on Twitter or Instagram. You are making it seem like it's truly a hard thing to do. It's just like using a search engine. If you cannot do that, then again, there is another place which has no qualms with being completely nasty to each other, where they have no problem at all posting in great detail about people who even mention his name.
These ladies repost pictures and put them in a structured environment for it to be easy for everyone to see. There were two anonymous posters asking for the board to not only post their public photos, but to further invade the OPs privacy. As someone who lives in Pittsburgh quite close to more than a handful of players (pens and other NHL teams) I would never ask for a picture with them to respect their privacy and now I would never for another reason.
So again, there is a place you can go to have the link to the OP so you can stalk their IG or Twitter to see if they have done more than meet him. Because it seems you are truly interested to see if he's habitually hanging out with any of the pretty girls he's been photographed with. And then to argue whether his dating or not dating this or that, or wearing a veil that he's a 28 y/o virgin. This is not that place.
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Post by fergie on Sept 30, 2015 6:33:22 GMT -5
I know that I like to know where stuff came from because I like to see what people say about meeting Sid. That being said, I have posted a few things here and I don’t think I have posted the links very often, if ever. So basically, if you post the link, great thanks!, If not, no big deal, thanks for the picture. However I don’t think it should be assumed that people have horrible intentions, call them names or suggest that they go elsewhere just because they inquire about links. I know I’m not a member so my comment will likely be viewed as trolling, but that’s not the case. I just wanted to say that not everyone who is new is out to cause problems. Everyone is new at some point. To be completely honest. Most people don't even say more than "OMG" or "just met this guy, day made". It doesn't become a diatribe of fan fiction-esq play-by-play of how their eyes met and the girl just knew they connected. By telling them to go somewhere else, I'm giving them the place to go to get what they want. I don't know how that should be anything but that. We don't do it, but maybe this other place is more up your alley. It's pretty obvious we don't do more than oogle is photos. We don't debate things or speculate. That's not this board. There is nothing wrong with telling someone, maybe this isn't the right board for you. In my job daily I tell clients when working on consulting, if that's how you want to do it, my agency isn't the right fit for you. Simple as that. I'm not being exclusive, I'm saying we aren't going to bend to someone who is new, not registered meaning they don't really want to be a part of the group anyway, and start doing something we don't feel comfortable doing.
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Post by Ruby on Sept 30, 2015 6:51:38 GMT -5
Fergie, not everyone is great at digging up pictures of celebs. i dont have twitter, i don't feel the need to have twitter, so why is it so difficult to understand that it isn't super easy for everyone to know exactly where to look? i found this board from tumblr, i didn't search or dig this site up. and like i said before, which you would have seen if you actually read what i posted, I UNDERSTOOD WHY YOU DON'T POST THE LINK, AND I ACCEPTED IT. I HAVE NO NEED OR INTENTION TO INVADE SOMEONES PRIVACY AT ALL JUST TO LOOK AT PICTURES, DON'T ASSUME I DO. BUT what i don't understand is why you both felt the need to start attacking me and calling me names for asking a simple question? i wasn't demanding anything, i was just simply asking if you could, and since i am new to this board i have no idea how it works here. I asked and me and Im talked about it, I UNDERSTOOD and moved on, but then Cat and you decided to join in and call me names.
And honestly if this is how you treat newcomers i don't understand how anyone would want to join this board at all.
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Post by cat on Sept 30, 2015 7:13:16 GMT -5
Ruby, you were given a very civil answer to your first request, it just wasn't the answer you wanted. So you stopped being polite, acted all affronted and kept pushing until another anon joined in on your cause, that's how you "ganged up". Don't think we don't know how the internet works, if you stir an issue hard enough you can find a supporter. I don't buy your claim on victim status in all of this, don't dish out what you can't take because you'll end up with a bigger portion served back.
As for my use of the phrase "join in" it was in reference to the lateness of my response. I live very far away from most of the other members of the board so a lot of discussion happens while I am asleep. But that doesn't mean I can't have a say on something if I feel strongly about it.
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Post by jmrmhi on Sept 30, 2015 7:16:22 GMT -5
Ruby, we are a fiercely loyal group. We appreciate AlLL who contribute for pictures, articles, and vids because some of us don't have the time to search social media for them. Speaking for myself, I am beyond grateful just for the picture to be posted, I do not need the source or credits of who posted it. When OP of pics or vids make it public then it can be anyone's, you can easily make pictures private and many have had to do that after being harassed because of said picture going public. Above all else WE LOVE this board, and we love those who made it possible.
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Post by Ruby on Sept 30, 2015 7:27:39 GMT -5
Cat, i wasn't about not liking the answer i was given, i felt like it was given to me in a very condescending way, i understood why you don't give out links, i don't know how many more times I have to say this? and I did not keep pushing, Im wanted to know why i wanted a link and I explained. And i have never called myself a victim here, I just want to defend myself when someone starts attacking me, I'm sure you would feel the same.
And me and Im already talked about it, she didn't mean for it to sound condescending i understand that. sometimes if you are in a hurry and especially over the internet things can be misunderstood. But like i said, me and Im already discussed it and moved on, but then you two started attacking me AFTER we were done talking about it! that's what i meant with not understanding why you felt the need to join in when me and Im were already done discussing it.
and i can assure you, me and that other anon that agreed with me, we have not had any contact what so ever outside of this board, so it's impossible for us to "gang up" on someone. she just agreed with what I was saying, and she also agreed with me about it being uncalled for calling me names.
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Post by Ruby on Sept 30, 2015 7:54:22 GMT -5
jmrmhi, I'm sure you love this board and i'm sure you think it's great. I AM NOT UNAPPRECIATING FOR ALL THE PICTURES POSTED HERE I JUST ASKED IF YOU COULD POST LINKS, I AM NEW AND DIDN'T KNOW YOUR RULES, Im EXPLAIND THAT IT WASN'T GOING TO HAPPEN I UNDERSTOOD AND MOVED ON. I don't know how many more times or ways i have to say this??
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Post by cat on Sept 30, 2015 7:58:16 GMT -5
And yet here you are still stirring, keeping the issue active by continuing to try have the last response instead of letting it die down like you claim you want it to, and acting like you aren't in a situation of your own making.
Please go back and re-read your own responses to remember that you have slung your share of insults at us too.
I think we've ferreted out your true nature. I'm done.
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Post by Ruby on Sept 30, 2015 8:00:06 GMT -5
And if it's so important to you to feel like you need to win this discussion then let's just drop this and move on. It obviously doesn't matter what i say to any of you, so let's just agree to disagree and move on with our lives. i'm sure we all have better things to do than this? i don't know what else to say, i just keep repeating myself here to deaf ears. so, agree to disagree and let's stay out of each others ways
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Post by Ruby on Sept 30, 2015 8:06:25 GMT -5
At least i didn't call anyone any awful names.
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Post by Snarky on Sept 30, 2015 8:36:35 GMT -5
Ruby, I can assure you that any response that didn't address you was a general statement for the lurkers that come up from the Pitts of Hell that are obsessed with this subject who were no doubt vibrating with ecstasy at the thought of them being able to start a war over this if it wasn't squashed right away.
Just let it go. Enjoy the pictures as you get them, or go find somewhere else that is more suitable for what you want.
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Post by lm on Sept 30, 2015 9:01:57 GMT -5
Ok first can i say thank you guys for what i feel is more a defence of me and other who post to the board than an attack on you Ruby - i know it doesn't feel that way. Everyone has there back up here because there have been attacks in more ways than one from people who go to another board. They are the same people leaving a lot of those messages on people's social media. When someone comes on as anonymous and the tone sounds the same we assume its them starting trouble because well thats what they do. Sorry Ruby if you feel ganged up on as well - we are a welcoming bunch i promise but as you can see fiercely loyal to each other. I think we're all cool though right? I'm not going to post links but anyone who wants to is welcome to post them. Ruby if you want to learn to search tags and fast and easy way send me a PM or message and i will show you. I'm gonna move this to its own thread which we can direct people to if they ask about posting pics - to scare them from the board so they never come back lol..
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Post by lm on Sept 30, 2015 11:00:59 GMT -5
Pic posts and Photo Credits
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